This place though... it has a way of springing things on you. You might not plan on having sex in the water but you might run into one of the plants that drives you crazy and makes you need sex so badly you'll do anything to get it, in the water or wherever.
[ Anya doesn't say anything for a moment, then sighs a little. ]
That's what everyone keeps telling me. I've been as careful as I can be when I'm outside and I stay as close to the city and the castle as I can. I hope it's enough.
But it can be super fun too. When you lose all control and have someone you can go to.
Like... some plants can make you feel like you totally want to dominate someone and some are like you just want to be ordered around. Then you might find out you really like one of those when you hadnt considered it before!
Be very take charge, sexually. For some people it makes things more arousing to be very take charge. Other people get exited to be the one being ordered around. The terms are sometimes called dominate and submissive, or dom and sub.
Okay. My thing is like... I like doing what the other person wants me to
do. It's just amazing to be the fulfillment of someone's fantasy. So if my
partner wants to be dominated I can do that. If they want to boss me
around? I'm all about that too.
You can ask them. Either flat out or in the heat of the moment. You can start prompting them to tell you their fantasies, tell them you'll do anything. That sort of stuff.
But I am pretty good at figuring that stuff out as we go.
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Re: Audio
Date: 2018-08-17 04:34 am (UTC)Oooh. That's good to know. Thank you.
...I mean, I wasn't going to have sex in the water anyway, but still, that is good to know.
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-08-18 05:07 am (UTC)Re: Audio
Date: 2018-08-18 07:54 pm (UTC)That's what everyone keeps telling me. I've been as careful as I can be when I'm outside and I stay as close to the city and the castle as I can. I hope it's enough.
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-08-20 02:40 pm (UTC)That's good. Just... it's best to have a plan for when it happens and not assume if you're careful it never will.
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-08-20 04:43 pm (UTC)Re: Audio
Date: 2018-08-22 02:48 am (UTC)But it can be super fun too. When you lose all control and have someone you can go to.
Like... some plants can make you feel like you totally want to dominate someone and some are like you just want to be ordered around. Then you might find out you really like one of those when you hadnt considered it before!
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-08-22 03:43 am (UTC)Re: Audio
Date: 2018-08-27 01:29 am (UTC)Re: Audio
Date: 2018-08-30 04:54 am (UTC)...I'm not sure I'd like being ordered around.
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-09-03 09:30 pm (UTC)I get that. What about being the one that bosses people around?
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-09-05 12:13 am (UTC)...Maybe?
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-09-05 02:42 am (UTC)[Okay, that was absolutely adorable.]
It can be really fun! And there are different ways to do it too.
You can be stern and bossy, all sharp and commanding. But you can also do it sweetly.
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-09-08 10:47 pm (UTC)Re: Audio
Date: 2018-09-10 03:29 am (UTC)Yes! Honestly...
Okay. My thing is like... I like doing what the other person wants me to do. It's just amazing to be the fulfillment of someone's fantasy. So if my partner wants to be dominated I can do that. If they want to boss me around? I'm all about that too.
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-09-12 09:57 pm (UTC)So...do they just...tell you what they like? Or do you have to guess?
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-09-13 04:36 am (UTC)But I am pretty good at figuring that stuff out as we go.
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-09-13 07:27 pm (UTC)But this is all very good advice, thank you so much, Eve.
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-09-17 01:20 am (UTC)It's mostly ego and vanity but confidence definitely sounds better.
Of course! Anything you need, about this subject or anything else, just ask.
Re: Audio
Date: 2018-09-17 02:22 am (UTC)