Oh how exciting! Congratulations! I’m happy for you!
[Anya could probably even make out a little clap of delight from Eve.]
So. What I’d do is do something like asking them to go for a walk or something with me. In the halls, along the castle grounds, just some place you can get alone time. Then I’d tell them something like how you enjoy their company and are glad you have someone like them here to make it easier. Then tell them that you know given the nature of this place you know that you’ll end up sleeping with someone eventually and you’d prefer that your first time be of your own choice with someone that you care about, have a connection with, and find very attractive. Someone like them.
Uhhhh, unless you’re talking about it being someone that’s just so stupid sexy hot you wanna ride them like a pony and actual feelings for them aren’t involved. Then I’d take a different approach.
[ It actually sounds like very good advice, but then the question of what she feels comes into play, and Anya honestly doesn't know how she feels. Or if feelings, deeper feelings should even come into play. It seems...safer if it doesn't. ]
I...well. I definitely...the last thing is...yes. But other than...that, I don't know what my feelings are other than that he seems like he's a good man and he's been kind to me.
Okay, so just strike the feelings part and you’re golden!
Another option is to stay out late doing... pretty much anything and when
it’s time to end it invite him back to your room. Sex is usually kind of
implied with that. If this is your first time I totally recommend the first
option though, it sets expectations.
[She is kind of stupid excited for Anya about this.]
What? Oh, no! [ She bursts into giggles when she realizes what Eve inferred from her remarks. ] The tea was a different time from the...the other. The other was in the baths here.
Well maybe the two of you can have sexy, naked tea time soon!
The baths here can be super fun! I wish there were more private bathing
areas because that’s such a good way for first time sex to start. Like...
you’re alrwady familiar being naked in that environment.
I'm sure you could get the kitchen to deliver some hot water. Or just bring a kettle up yourself.
[SHE CAN HEAR YOUR JUDGEMENT! But she totally understands.]
Most of the times it's not like I go scoping for someone to have sex with in the baths. Usually it's either I go there and it's someone I've had sex with before and it's like "hey, whaddya know, we're both naked..." or it just ends up being flirty and one thing leads to another.
Oh, of course, I would, but it still feels a bit like stealing, and I don't know if the little goat man in the kitchen would like it very much. He seems angry.
...That doesn't sound safe at all, Eve. It would be really easy to slip and hurt yourself.
You could always volunteer to help out in the kitchen a bit in exchange?
[He was pretty grumpy but Eve never let that stop her from being nice. Either he secretly appreciated it or it annoyed him and she was okay with either.]
Oh, they're laying down when I do it! It's just a fun position to have oral sex in.
This place though... it has a way of springing things on you. You might not plan on having sex in the water but you might run into one of the plants that drives you crazy and makes you need sex so badly you'll do anything to get it, in the water or wherever.
[ Anya doesn't say anything for a moment, then sighs a little. ]
That's what everyone keeps telling me. I've been as careful as I can be when I'm outside and I stay as close to the city and the castle as I can. I hope it's enough.
But it can be super fun too. When you lose all control and have someone you can go to.
Like... some plants can make you feel like you totally want to dominate someone and some are like you just want to be ordered around. Then you might find out you really like one of those when you hadnt considered it before!
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Oh how exciting! Congratulations! I’m happy for you!
[Anya could probably even make out a little clap of delight from Eve.]
So. What I’d do is do something like asking them to go for a walk or something with me. In the halls, along the castle grounds, just some place you can get alone time. Then I’d tell them something like how you enjoy their company and are glad you have someone like them here to make it easier. Then tell them that you know given the nature of this place you know that you’ll end up sleeping with someone eventually and you’d prefer that your first time be of your own choice with someone that you care about, have a connection with, and find very attractive. Someone like them.
Uhhhh, unless you’re talking about it being someone that’s just so stupid sexy hot you wanna ride them like a pony and actual feelings for them aren’t involved. Then I’d take a different approach.
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I...well. I definitely...the last thing is...yes. But other than...that, I don't know what my feelings are other than that he seems like he's a good man and he's been kind to me.
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Okay, so just strike the feelings part and you’re golden!
Another option is to stay out late doing... pretty much anything and when it’s time to end it invite him back to your room. Sex is usually kind of implied with that. If this is your first time I totally recommend the first option though, it sets expectations.
[She is kind of stupid excited for Anya about this.]
Do you mind if I ask who it is?
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Oooh, is this the guy that knows you in your future?
[Eve was far, far too delighted about this but she didn't care. People hooking up was totally her jam, whether or not she was part of it.]
And he's really attractive? Have you kissed? Held hands? Gone dancing? What's his best feature?
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[ Eve can't see it but Anya is blushing a lot. ]
No, we haven't really...we had tea once?
He, well. His eyes are very dark and expressive.
...andhelooksreallygoodnaked.
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Anya...
They must have very interesting tea parties where you’re from.
[Eve is totally down for nude tea parties though.]
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Well maybe the two of you can have sexy, naked tea time soon!
The baths here can be super fun! I wish there were more private bathing areas because that’s such a good way for first time sex to start. Like... you’re alrwady familiar being naked in that environment.
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...Do you have sex in the baths? Do people do that?
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That’s why you have it on the privacy of your own room. Or in a public place that allows it if that’s your thing.
[There was just a hint of a pause before she continued.]
Welllll.... maybe several times.
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...Oh. [ Ew. But also... ] Is it fun?
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[SHE CAN HEAR YOUR JUDGEMENT! But she totally understands.]
Most of the times it's not like I go scoping for someone to have sex with in the baths. Usually it's either I go there and it's someone I've had sex with before and it's like "hey, whaddya know, we're both naked..." or it just ends up being flirty and one thing leads to another.
I, uh, I kinda really like having sex.
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[ SHE'S NOT. She just likes taking baths and she doesn't want to think about, you know, fluids. ]
There's nothing wrong with liking to have sex. [ Anya's a virgin but that doesn't make her a prude. ]
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Exactly! Sex in the proper context is amazing. Sometimes that context is in riding someone's face in the baths.
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...That doesn't sound safe at all, Eve. It would be really easy to slip and hurt yourself.
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You could always volunteer to help out in the kitchen a bit in exchange?
[He was pretty grumpy but Eve never let that stop her from being nice. Either he secretly appreciated it or it annoyed him and she was okay with either.]
Oh, they're laying down when I do it! It's just a fun position to have oral sex in.
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[Eve couldn’t help it, she fell off the bed laughing.]
No, no, not in the water. I didn’t explain that well at all and the mental picture you must have had...
Sex IN water isn’t that great. Water is a terrible lubricant and actually washes away your natural lubrication.
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Oooh. That's good to know. Thank you.
...I mean, I wasn't going to have sex in the water anyway, but still, that is good to know.
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That's what everyone keeps telling me. I've been as careful as I can be when I'm outside and I stay as close to the city and the castle as I can. I hope it's enough.
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That's good. Just... it's best to have a plan for when it happens and not assume if you're careful it never will.
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But it can be super fun too. When you lose all control and have someone you can go to.
Like... some plants can make you feel like you totally want to dominate someone and some are like you just want to be ordered around. Then you might find out you really like one of those when you hadnt considered it before!
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