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elsewherewolf) wrote2025-09-24 07:06 pm
elsewherewolf) wrote2025-09-24 07:06 pm
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I could? I don't want to steal if I don't have to.
[ SHE'S NOT. She just likes taking baths and she doesn't want to think about, you know, fluids. ]
There's nothing wrong with liking to have sex. [ Anya's a virgin but that doesn't make her a prude. ]
[ SHE'S NOT. She just likes taking baths and she doesn't want to think about, you know, fluids. ]
There's nothing wrong with liking to have sex. [ Anya's a virgin but that doesn't make her a prude. ]
You can always just return it when you're done, or ask if you can borrow it.
Exactly! Sex in the proper context is amazing. Sometimes that context is in riding someone's face in the baths.
Exactly! Sex in the proper context is amazing. Sometimes that context is in riding someone's face in the baths.
Oh, of course, I would, but it still feels a bit like stealing, and I don't know if the little goat man in the kitchen would like it very much. He seems angry.
...That doesn't sound safe at all, Eve. It would be really easy to slip and hurt yourself.
...That doesn't sound safe at all, Eve. It would be really easy to slip and hurt yourself.
You could always volunteer to help out in the kitchen a bit in exchange?
[He was pretty grumpy but Eve never let that stop her from being nice. Either he secretly appreciated it or it annoyed him and she was okay with either.]
Oh, they're laying down when I do it! It's just a fun position to have oral sex in.
...Oh! So you aren't in the water when you do this. Because if you were someone would drown!
[Eve couldn’t help it, she fell off the bed laughing.]
No, no, not in the water. I didn’t explain that well at all and the mental picture you must have had...
Sex IN water isn’t that great. Water is a terrible lubricant and actually washes away your natural lubrication.
[ Anya can't help but giggle too, because Eve is right, she had quite the mental image. ]
Oooh. That's good to know. Thank you.
...I mean, I wasn't going to have sex in the water anyway, but still, that is good to know.
Oooh. That's good to know. Thank you.
...I mean, I wasn't going to have sex in the water anyway, but still, that is good to know.
This place though... it has a way of springing things on you. You might not plan on having sex in the water but you might run into one of the plants that drives you crazy and makes you need sex so badly you'll do anything to get it, in the water or wherever.
[ Anya doesn't say anything for a moment, then sighs a little. ]
That's what everyone keeps telling me. I've been as careful as I can be when I'm outside and I stay as close to the city and the castle as I can. I hope it's enough.
That's what everyone keeps telling me. I've been as careful as I can be when I'm outside and I stay as close to the city and the castle as I can. I hope it's enough.
That's good. Just... it's best to have a plan for when it happens and not assume if you're careful it never will.
No, you're right. It's better to be prepared.
But it can be super fun too. When you lose all control and have someone you can go to.
Like... some plants can make you feel like you totally want to dominate someone and some are like you just want to be ordered around. Then you might find out you really like one of those when you hadnt considered it before!
Dominate someone? [ Anya gets lost in the kink talk. ]
Be very take charge, sexually. For some people it makes things more arousing to be very take charge. Other people get exited to be the one being ordered around. The terms are sometimes called dominate and submissive, or dom and sub.
Oh.
...I'm not sure I'd like being ordered around.
...I'm not sure I'd like being ordered around.
I get that. What about being the one that bosses people around?
[ There's a lengthy pause, because Anya has to think about it, and blush a little. ]
...Maybe?
...Maybe?
[Okay, that was absolutely adorable.]
It can be really fun! And there are different ways to do it too.
You can be stern and bossy, all sharp and commanding. But you can also do it sweetly.
Is that something that you like to do? Either of those things? To be the bossy, or the other way?
Yes! Honestly...
Okay. My thing is like... I like doing what the other person wants me to do. It's just amazing to be the fulfillment of someone's fantasy. So if my partner wants to be dominated I can do that. If they want to boss me around? I'm all about that too.
Oh.
So...do they just...tell you what they like? Or do you have to guess?
So...do they just...tell you what they like? Or do you have to guess?
You can ask them. Either flat out or in the heat of the moment. You can start prompting them to tell you their fantasies, tell them you'll do anything. That sort of stuff.
But I am pretty good at figuring that stuff out as we go.
But I am pretty good at figuring that stuff out as we go.
I wish I had your confidence.
But this is all very good advice, thank you so much, Eve.
But this is all very good advice, thank you so much, Eve.
It's mostly ego and vanity but confidence definitely sounds better.
Of course! Anything you need, about this subject or anything else, just ask.
I will. Thank you, Eve, you're a good friend.
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