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That's good. Just... it's best to have a plan for when it happens and not assume if you're careful it never will.

No, you're right. It's better to be prepared.

But it can be super fun too. When you lose all control and have someone you can go to.

Like... some plants can make you feel like you totally want to dominate someone and some are like you just want to be ordered around. Then you might find out you really like one of those when you hadnt considered it before!

Dominate someone? [ Anya gets lost in the kink talk. ]

Be very take charge, sexually. For some people it makes things more arousing to be very take charge. Other people get exited to be the one being ordered around. The terms are sometimes called dominate and submissive, or dom and sub.

Oh.

...I'm not sure I'd like being ordered around.

I get that. What about being the one that bosses people around?

[ There's a lengthy pause, because Anya has to think about it, and blush a little. ]

...Maybe?

[Okay, that was absolutely adorable.]

It can be really fun! And there are different ways to do it too.

You can be stern and bossy, all sharp and commanding. But you can also do it sweetly.

Is that something that you like to do? Either of those things? To be the bossy, or the other way?

Yes! Honestly...

Okay. My thing is like... I like doing what the other person wants me to do. It's just amazing to be the fulfillment of someone's fantasy. So if my partner wants to be dominated I can do that. If they want to boss me around? I'm all about that too.

Oh.

So...do they just...tell you what they like? Or do you have to guess?

You can ask them. Either flat out or in the heat of the moment. You can start prompting them to tell you their fantasies, tell them you'll do anything. That sort of stuff.

But I am pretty good at figuring that stuff out as we go.

I wish I had your confidence.

But this is all very good advice, thank you so much, Eve.

It's mostly ego and vanity but confidence definitely sounds better.

Of course! Anything you need, about this subject or anything else, just ask.

I will. Thank you, Eve, you're a good friend.

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